Why Does This Matter?

To connect RD to real-world moments without persuasion or urgency.

Because most of our conversations are doing one of three things: 

  • trying to get somewhere fast 
  • trying to sound competent 
  • trying not to rock the boat 

 

RD is for the moments when none of those are helping. 

You might care if:

  • you’re carrying a decision that doesn’t have a clear right answer 
  • you’re tired of explaining yourself and still being misunderstood 
  • you feel like everything has to be optimized or defended 
  • you want to talk without turning it into a debate or a confession 
  • you’re stuck between “do nothing” and “hurry and make a decision” 

 

If you recognize yourself here, reflective dialogue offers a way to stay with these moments without rushing past them.